I love our Honda Pilot EX-L. It works incredibly well for our family of 4. We have a bench seat in the middle and keep the third row down the majority of the time. The trunk space is great with this setup, especially with the extra under-floor storage area to tuck away backup diapers, outfits, etc. The third row isn't incredibly comfortable to me due to leg room, but it works well for us for the rare occasion that we need to use it.
The second row is spacious and fits rear and forward facing carseats with plenty of room for my 6'3" husband in the front row. We use all of the door cubbies regularly, and really appreciate two cupholders back there. The latch for forward facing carseats is easy to access, too. There are no ceiling vents, but with separate rear controls we've had no issues with rear facing kiddos being too hot in the 100+ heat days. Plus, the built in sun shades are so helpful!
The front row has everything we need. Heated seats, wireless apple CarPlay, physical climate control buttons with auto climate control, 4 cupholders (2 in center console and 1 in each door), lots of cubby space, adaptive cruise control, lane keep assist, parking sensors, easy to use screen - just to name a few of our favorite features. I saw a lot of concern regarding the Pilot screen size being smaller than most other SUVs, but we've never felt it was lacking or considered it too small. The only feature I'd love to have that wasn't available on the EX-L is the front parking camera. However, the front sensors work well, especially once we got accustomed to the distance we had left with each beep/indicator on the screen.
Overall, we are extremely happy with our Pilot and how functional it has been for our family. We plan to drive it for many years to come!